Showing posts with label Man. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Man. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Is this True???

Just the other day when I was driving home from work, I heard this on the Radio. Now according to research (I'm not sure who does their research for them!!!) they found that man who marry a woman who he thinks is beautiful/drop dead gorgeous and that he doesn't deserve, will most likely have a very successful marriage because he will treat her very well. Man who thinks that they are better looking than their wife will most likely not have a successful marriage because they think they deserve better.

What do you all think?

Does this mean that man who thinks they are so damn goodlooking will cheat more? How about those drop dead gorgeous woman who married an average looking man? Won't they cheat on them and think they deserve better too?

Maybe its because woman in general tend to love romantic gestures and love to have a sense of emotional closeness, therefore may not cheat on the husband even if they are drop dead gorgeous.

Now men on the other hand, if they think that they deserve better and could find someone even more beautiful because he is one damn good looking guy, no matter how nice the wife treats him, he may have the urge to still cheat on her. Probably because men are more visually stimulated??? Maybe???

It's no wonder there is a phrase that goes "It's better to marry someone who loves you more than you love them" (applies to women I suppose) Something like that lah...:P. Hopefully somewhere in the marriage you'll learn to love them just as much! :).

How about if both are drop dead gorgeous leh??? Seldom happens I know but it does happen.

Still one might feel inferior to the other one, i think.

Oklah...enough of me thinking....TA!

Why? Why?? WHY???

Since I've been married for almost four years now, I notice that men cannot be train to do things. Not that I'm saying they can't change, they do change for the better as they grow older but their certain habits remains the same (now I'm not sayng all men but majority). Ladies out there, if you are either married or staying with your boyfriend, please confirm with me on whether this is true! Feel free to add to the list of things they do.

1) They have this bad habit of taking off their clothes before reaching the toilet to shower and leaving it on the floor or on the sofa or anywhere else except the laundry basket! Now, in normal circumstances if it was me, after I shower, I will pick it up and put it into the laudry basket! But for men, they'll just leave it lying there until some kind soul will finally decide that it is such a nuisance being on the floor and pick it up AKA wife/gf. Why ah? Why??? Is it so hard for them to pick it up and put it into the laundry basket? OR do they just enjoy the time when night comes and wait till we ask the crucial question "This Clean or Not?" (I think they want attention eh??)

2) When they are looking for something they tend to look with their mouth! For example, "Honey, where is the house key???" Doesn't tha sound so familiar....hahaha...the reason for them not being able to find whatever they want to is because they usually just scan the surface! We on the other hand will go out of our way to dig here and dig there just to find the item. Of course there are times when we just could not be bothered and we say " I don't know! You were the last one to use it!" Yes! we can get fed-up too! :) Why can't they just leave the keys at the same place whenever they come back? Probably too drunk to do so...hahaha...

3) They like to use the word "I don't know!" Now, if we women where to ask "Honey, where's the house key?" Their reply would most probably be "I don't know". True? If we were to ask "Honey, where should we go for lunch?" the answer would also most probably be "I don't know".

4) Why do men have a tendency to fall asleep infront of the tv?
Why why why???

The sad part to it all is that we still pick up after them, we still hunt down the keys for them, and we still accept they "I don't know's" and decide for them and we still swicth off the tv and wake them up to go into the room.....sigh....and life goes on...